By: Cindy Coons
Director of Family Engagement & Jewish Explorers
Making room for one another doesn’t happen by chance. It grows from the choices we make to welcome others, appreciate different perspectives, and recognize the unique experiences each person brings.
We see this idea illustrated in this week’s Torah portion, Toldot, meaning “generations.” Isaac and his servants dig a series of wells, only to face repeated disputes with others over the water. Rather than continuing to fight over the same space, Isaac chooses to move on. Eventually, they dig a well that is not contested. Isaac names it Rechovot, meaning “broad places,” expressing gratitude that God has made room for them and that they will be fruitful in the land (Genesis 26:22).
What strikes me about this story is Isaac’s willingness to recognize the possibility of something different, a place where there is room to grow and flourish. The name he gives the well, Rechovot, offers a beautiful reminder that sometimes what we need most is simply the space to be ourselves and to allow others to do the same.
This makes me think about the many ways we intentionally create space for one another in our relationships and our community. While we naturally gravitate toward people who share our interests and perspectives, some of our most meaningful connections grow when we remain curious about one another and open to learning from our differences.
Our Jewish community is enriched by the different experiences and perspectives each of us brings. By appreciating these differences and embracing our shared values, we create opportunities to build meaningful relationships and deepen our understanding of one another.
Perhaps the invitation Toldot offers us is to continue nurturing a welcoming Jewish community where people feel seen, valued, and accepted for who they are. Through these efforts, we help create the conditions that, over time, can foster a sense of belonging.
As we prepare to welcome in Shabbat, may we embrace the differences that make each of us unique, approach one another with curiosity, kindness, and respect, and continue strengthening a Jewish community where meaningful relationships and connections can flourish today and for generations to come.
Because a strong community isn’t one where everyone is the same. It’s one where everyone has room to be themselves.
Shabbat Shalom from all of us at JEWISHcolorado!
Please email Cindy Coons at ccoons@jewishcolorado.org with questions or comments.